Saturday, December 20, 2008
Dear Headphones,
This post will be a word of Wisdom after so long an absence. Get Ready.
Your ProblemsI know I've blogged about this in relation to why I joined church. It seems, no one can get the message, this time lets get down to business.
Surprisingly, I've got this message from a new song by the Fall Out Boys. This sentence was part of their chorus "You can only Blame your problems on the world for so long before it all becomes the same old song." Just this sentence alone outlines the many problems you will face or are facing or have faced. How long can you blame your problems on the world, your friend, God or your family? In the end, after you've passed the stage, look back and see, don't you find it all familiar? Face a problem, get angry scold people, get sad cry on your own. Why not look ahead and solve that problem. Look at the bigger picture? What I'm saying is, your problems ARE part of your life, there's no detour, no pit stop, no shortcut. You can go right through it, change the beat of the song, bring up the tempo, change the atmosphere! Otherwise, be my guest and stay on the same beat, you'll find that the problem you're going through takes a longer time to end, gets boring, once it gets boring, you'll start thinking, "Hey, When is this going to end?", you'll start to get EMOtional.
My answer to this? Stop blaming, start solving! Have a relationship problem? Stop sulking, get moving on! Have family problems? Who doesn't? Talk it out, get a solution, open your heart out, be true to your loved one and don't stop being true until you've reached an agreement. Friend problem? If the person is a true friend, stop killing the relationship and talk it out other than hurling insults at each other! If the person is just a friend that's not worth saving, why not go out and do stuff with people you are happier with other than secretly scolding that person or bearing a grudge? Think, does the person even get affected by you?
Best of all, learn how to change and improve! Without constant change and improvement, plus the continuous adaptation to the surrounding people you'll never learn to get along, or get people to like you or like people.
I was like this I can say, I've been through a load of crap before realising it and in the end land up laughing at myself. This path of goodness can never be achieved without the help of God, the church and my close friends!
This ChristmasNow on a lighter Note! Gift exchange has just ended and apparantly everyone went home happy! No matter how small, how your gift looks like, the real gift is the gift of giving. To bring that smile on a person's face cannot be priced.
*Special Thanks to Liwei for making my thought comes alive! I needed a New shirt and Chain!!!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!!!
**YanZhi! Hope you like your gift! Nothing much but just enjoy yea?
***Jia Hui, Yours coming. Wait.. LOL.
****Other, thanks for being part of my life!! Love you all lots lots!!!
Its always a special way to end the year, end the year with smiles, even in the face of adversities, problems and hardships! For this year, I end with a smile and tears of joy.
Giving makes me happy.
The Guy
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